As parents, we all want our kids to grow up to be kind, open-minded, and accepting of others. One of the best ways to help them get there is by teaching them to celebrate differences.
The world is full of people who live differently than others. And that’s actually a good thing! When we teach kids early on to embrace diversity, we’re giving them the tools to become better friends, better leaders, and just all-around better humans.
So how do we do that, exactly? Here are a few simple ways:
1. Start with Books and Stories
Children’s books are a gentle and effective way to introduce different cultures, abilities, family structures, and experiences. Look for books that feature diverse characters — not just in the background, but as the heroes of the story. Reading these together can spark natural conversations.
2. Encourage Questions
Kids are naturally curious, and sometimes they’ll ask things that make us squirm. Instead of shushing them, use their questions as opportunities. If your child asks why someone uses a wheelchair or wears a turban, explain it honestly and with kindness. When we answer with openness, they learn that differences aren’t scary or “weird,” just part of life.
3. Lead by Example
Children watch everything we do. If they see us treating everyone with respect, speaking up against unfairness, and showing interest in different cultures, they’ll copy that. You don’t have to make big speeches just model inclusion in your everyday behavior.
4. Celebrate Cultural Events
Try exploring holidays or traditions from other parts of the world. Maybe cook a new dish together, learn a few words in another language, or attend a local cultural festival. These experiences build appreciation and understanding.
5. Talk About Fairness
In the end, teaching kids to celebrate differences isn’t about a one-time conversation — it’s about creating an environment where kindness, curiosity, and respect are part of everyday life. And honestly? The world could use more of that. A beautiful example to teach kids about accepting differences is through the Adventures of Mika and Caitie – The Jewelled Dragon by Grammy Barbara. In this magical story, two sisters, Mika and Caitie, discover a dragon’s glowing scale and are taken on a journey through the Whispering Woods. Along the way, they meet magical creatures and face big decisions. But what shines brightest is not magic or treasure—it’s their kindness, courage, and how they stand together.